A lot of guys have been asking me what we men should do for body language, so this column will give you the answers: how to recognize female body language, how to react to it, and how to use your own body language to flirt with women successfully, from start to finish.You have to remember that whatever you say, however you gesture your hands, arms, head, and eyes, women are NOT taking your movements at face value. If she jokes with you and you lightly push her away as if to say “Stop”, she’s taking that simple gesture as something more: interest, dis-interest, enjoyment, annoyance-any of a million different signals. She’s reading it for further suggestions as to what kind of guy you are, and what your interest in her is. Know that with body language, girls are always reading the way you move and act!Here are my “Lucky Seven” best ways to show interest:The confident eye gazeThe “Dale Head Drop”Smile!Open body languageLean in to herThumbs in beltTouch herLet’s look at each in more detail:1. The confident eye gazeThis is how you start your interest. Nothing shows confidence off the bat like meeting a girl’s eyes, and KEEPING YOUR STARE. If you see her look down and smile, you know you’ve made it and the time to approach is now. If she looks away from you but doesn’t smile, give her a shot nonetheless; just the fact that she met your eyes for a second or two shows interest.2. The Dale Head DropSo named after the guy who mastered the art of getting women rushing to his side, just with a simple shrug! If you really want to blow away a girl-and show some balls-meet a girl’s eyes, then knowingly drop your head to the side, as if to say, “Hey, you know you want me. Come over here and get me!” I’ve found this to work incredibly well in foreign countries. In the States, the girls tend to be able to see through it a bit more-but it still works!3. Smile!It’s often overlooked, but nothing communicates happiness, confidence, and interest in a girl all in one like a nice big smile. Show the girl you’re in control, show her you’re confident, show her you’re a fun guy to be around: brighten the place up with a big smile! And if your teeth need work, then get them fixed! It’s good not just for your chances of meeting a girl, but also for your health and appearance!4. Open Body LanguageSo many guys walk or sit with their arms crossed, their legs close together, and their faces anxious and flat. Stop that! Welcome a girl into your world: Have your arms open and leaned back, your legs open and relaxed, your face warm and inviting. You’ll not only attract yourself into a girl’s world, but also into the world of people at a party, club, or bar who can help you meet a future girlfriend-or even wife!5. Lean in to herAs you’re talking to a girl, especially while seated, show her your interest with confidence by leaning in closer. You don’t want to be a creep, of course, but you can generally tell by a girl’s body language and talk how interested she is in you. If things are looking good, show her your control of the situation-and interest in her-by leaning in and generally getting closer to her. Leaning back does the opposite; it shows you’re unconfident and not overly interested. Not what you want to communicate.6. Thumbs in beltEver put your thumbs in your belt, with your hands at your hips’ side? This is processed as a sign of being confident in one’s sexuality and size. So if you’re standing around at a bar or club and want to convey confidence, this will certainly be understood by girls!7. Touch her!Yup, nothing gets you closer to a girl than physical touch. Great conversations and emotional/spiritual chemistry are great, but if you really want to take it to the next level, you’ll have to eventually show some balls and touch her. I’m not talking about grabbing her and making out (unless it really is going that well and she’s flirting out of control!), but doing little things: brushing your arm by her shoulders, lightly massaging her, leading her by the arm to another location in the place. By making a physical connection, you’re giving her a sign loud and clear that you’re confident in yourself and interested in her.

Flirting with a woman is one of those things that is a common struggle for most men. You might feel awkward or even “lost” when it comes to flirting with a woman. However, if you want to be a success with women, then you have to know how to flirt with her. Most guys are not exactly the best when it comes to flirting. This is what will separate YOU from the rest of the pack that approaches a girl, especially if you are in a bar or a club.

Here are some things that you should NEVER do when flirting with a woman:

1. Let your body language show your nerves. A lot of men will look down at the ground or put their hands in their pockets. They end up using submissive body language around women and this is NOT going to make HER feel attracted to YOU. You have to be able to use confident and sexual body language to attract a woman.

2. Use pick up lines. This is the kind of, I don’t know what to do approach. Using a pick up line will make you seem like one of those desperate college kids that is trying way too hard to get laid. You don’t want to give off this vibe. Most women will reject you just because you tried to use a pick up line on her.

3. Try to “hypnotize” her. This is one of those 1970′s leftovers that some guys today still swear is the secret key to attracting women. For the most part, this as useful as trying to use a played out line. For one, hypnosis only works if she wants to be hypnotized AND if you can get her in a quiet environment. In a public place, this is usually not an option.

These are just some of the many mistakes that men make when flirting with a woman. And you should NEVER make these mistakes if you want to taste REAL success with women.

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Women often don’t meet a lot of the type of men they want because they’re shy and not used to it. Well… get over yourself!

It’s a dog eat dog world out there, and if YOU want to find a great guy and what you’re doing isn’t working, it’s time to try something new.

Now a pickup line is only going to get things started and it’s up to you to make things work, but getting the conversation started is usually the hardest part, so I’ve put together a nice list to make things easier for you!

Now sometimes the usual, “Hi, my name is X” works great, but then things can suddenly cool off, and the situation could quickly get awkward. So having a clever pickup line can start off the conversation with a laugh, which can often turn into a great memory later on.

Here are 7 pick up lines that range from cute to corny for women to use on men:

There you go! 7 completely different conversation starters that are sure to be memorable and make him laugh.

Go have some fun with them. And when you’re ready for more tips, check out my website that teaches how to talk dirty and other tips and tricks men WISH women knew.

Evan Michaels

If you’re over 35 years of age and would like to learn how to date younger women then this article will be critical to your success. When referring to “younger” we mean the age of consent. There are many men who are in their 30s, 40s and even 50s who prefer younger women. They each have their own reasons. Some men prefer younger women because they tend to have less hang ups, less emotional baggage, and aren’t as eager to jump into a serious relationship. But usually it comes down to the level of energy and physical beauty. And that’s what most want anyway. Some men like to date younger women because it makes them feel younger. Whatever the reason there are a lot of men that prefer to date younger women.

In general, men are afraid to approach women because they are afraid of being rejected. This is no different for men who want to approach a younger woman but don’t want to appear to be “the dirty old man.” In reality some women actually prefer older men. I recently got turned down by a 25 year old woman because she only dates 40 year old men and older (I am in my mid-30s). It was ok because I eventually met a 27 year old graduate student who preferred dating an older man. First, a man has to realize that some women, especially in their 20s may think of dating an older man as “gross”. But that is her problem, not yours because there are other women who will find you “sexy”.

Some dating experts recommend that you completely change the way you dress, the way you talk, and even change your hobbies so you will be more attractive to a younger woman. I partially agree with this strategy. You shouldn’t go out and try snow-boarding if it does not appeal to you. It might make more sense to take dance lessons instead which is a great way to meet younger women. Younger women who like to date older men are typically looking for a more mature, financially stable man who will accept her for who she is. In fact, many younger women will think that you won’t want to date them because they are younger, so when you first talk to them you should tell them about a date in the past where you did date a younger woman. That way she will know you are totally ok with it.

A great place to meet younger women is on the Internet. You can put out your own online profile and specifically state that you are looking for a younger woman. Don’t be surprised when all the older women start e-mailing you and challenging you that they are more qualified to be with you than some young woman. I once received an e-mail from an older woman who wrote me “I have a lot more to offer than any young gal!”. Wow, some people take things way too personal. Another place to meet younger women is at church singles groups, night clubs, coffee shops, bookstores, shopping malls, college cities, music concerts, food fairs, restaurant openings, plays, and the list goes on and on.

You must be proactive in your approach and realize that this is a numbers game. The more women you meet the more phone numbers you will obtain. The more phone numbers you obtain the better the odds of you meeting that special someone. And remember, just because some women may not find the idea of dating an older man a good idea, doesn’t make it true. There will always be women out there that want to date an older man. Always.

Seconds grind by like hours, and you can feel the moment gurgling away like drain-o down a sewer. You’re vaguely aware there’s a play to be made here, but you’re totally unprepared. Something distracts her then — she turns away… the train pulls out, she gets into a cab, the bell rings for class. The moment vanishes like a ghost as though it had never existed in the first place. But you will see it over and over again in your mind won’t you? Re-played a hundred times.If you’ve ever known the agony of watching a chance encounter ripe with romantic possibility slip away while you stood helplessly and watched, then you know all about the lowest moment in a man’s life. Fear of having our romantic advances rejected by a woman still remains the #1 most difficult aspect of trying to hook up. And it may in fact be worse today than ever before in the past. After all, when have men ever been at such a social disadvantage to women as they are today… what with the complete collapse of any sort of culturally insistent need for them to act subservient in our presence? When have they ever been as sarcastic, demanding or casually judgmental of our fumbling actions?… or as secure in expressing them — since they now have the full protection of the law (including government and corporate anti-harassment rules) protecting them from any serious blowback?This makes the job of romantically approaching a woman a momentous chore for those of us who don’t happen to have a monster set of brass balls helping us out. I’ve done a lot of study and thinking about this subject (not to mention experiencing some delightful kicks in the teeth during the course of my, ah… research), and it seems to me there are THREE critical understandings to know about concerning this fine art of meeting women:1) You need to have some kind of standard icebreaker. And I’m not talking about some worn-out conversational opener like “been here often?”. Stop and think for a moment — most of us (unless we have some sort of severe social anxiety that requires psychiatric treatment) usually have no real problem making casual small talk with people, even perfect strangers on the subway, and really… even with hot chicks. If you knew in advance that you were only going to walk up to a girl and have a conversation about the weather, why… there would hardly be any anxiety involved in THAT, right? So then why all the fear?Because we know that if our true desire is to “pick her up”, then somehow we will have to do SOMETHING SPECIAL in order to change that mundane conversation over into a romantic one — and THIS unknown “something” that we have no clue as to how to do is what scares the hell out of us!I call this essential yet frightening transitional moment in a man-woman exchange “the icebreaker” — and like I said it is our uncertainty over just how to make this verbal “crossover” without looking like a complete fool that lies at the heart of our fear of rejection. Here in Dr. Frankenstein’s “seduction lab” I like to devise various little work-arounds for these types of nasty problems.One interesting conversational device that I’ve actually had a surprising amount of luck with is something I call resigned speculation. This is where you ask “The Question” by framing it in a manner that makes it seem like there is, of course, little or no chance of her responding in a positive way: “Listen, I know I’m probably crazy imagining that someone as (attractive, cool, stunning, vibrant) as you would be free to (have dinner, grab some coffee, get a drink) with me some evening…?” And then (the tough part) let that question just hang in the air until she’s forced to react. You’re speculating, you see — resigned to the fact that it’s probably just a pipe dream that anyone as gorgeous as her would be in a position to take up your wistful offer. See? This sort of oblique approach is disarming, charming and non-threatening to most women… especially if you present it in a playful and teasing manner.Resigned speculation is a great way to casually cross over the boundary from friendly stranger to romantic possibility without having to make that high-pressure, sweaty “verbal hit” that many of us just can’t bring ourselves to do. I’ve actually been stunned at how many times women will immediately jump at such a seemingly “oh well…” kind of offer. Not always of course, or even most of the time truthfully, but I’ll bet it’s been around 30-40% of the time in my experience… and in this crazy and unpredictable game baby, dat ain’t bad!2) Whatever you decide your icebreaker is, you need to standardize that statement for yourself, write it down… AND DRIVE IT WAY DOWN DEEP INTO YOUR UNCONSCIOUS MIND! That’s because when the moment arrives and you see a great looking girl and have a perfect opportunity to approach her… your nerves will start to jangle, your mind will blank out and pretty much just flatline on you. And when your skull is empty, you are powerless my friend.You need to do whatever it takes to make this phrase as easy to remember as a song lyric that you’ve heard blasted a thousand times on the radio. Something that you can ‘sing’ on a moment’s notice in any situation… a park, an elevator, a party. Otherwise you are merely carrying around a lot of book learning in your head, but you haven’t cultivated any actual SKILL yet.3) The ability to meet and seduce women is one of the most difficult things that we will ever have to learn how to do as men. Maybe if you’re currently training to land the next generation of Altair spacecraft on the moon in 15 years you’ve got something tougher going on in your life, but for the rest of us this sad fact remains basically true. The point is that you’ve got to understand the magnitude of this life challenge in order to give yourself a break and set yourself free any sense of shame that could still be lingering from past failures and fouling you up. Your behaviors are always just an expression of your most persistent thoughts — and if those thoughts constantly linger on how much you suck and how hopeless and helpless you are, then your life’s reality will follow suit… and it too will come to suck.Begin by losing any “emotionally scarred for life” type of crutch that you might currently be hobbling around on. Nobody gets to ride any sob story for life, I don’t care how horrible it was. The shelf life expires someday. You must develop the determination to press on and become as good as you need to be at this aspect of your male existence. Some of you will want to become big time players for instance, while others may be looking for a wife or girlfriend. Many of you just need to get laid and then allow that event to guide you where it may. Decide at what level YOU need to play this game, and then approach the task of acquiring the necessary skills to do so in a logical and rational fashion devoid of any “clouding” emotions such as bitterness or despair. This is how you eventually get good at charming women, it’s no magic.Mike Pilinski overcame an incredible case of rejection phobia by learning how to mimic certain key behaviors that women find attractive in high status males, the resulting success now forming the basis for the methods that he teaches. Visit Mike’s website at http://0845.com/jxV to see his highly acclaimed e-book “Without Embarrassment” and the brand new HSM Audio Training Series: “Dealing With Your Fear of Rejection”.http://0845.com/jxVI thank you for taking the time to read this short report and I sincerely hope you take actionand make your life happier and wealthier for the better.JanuszJanulis© 2003-2009 World Marketing Media, Inc.